Hi, I'm Sarah. This is a blog dedicated to the fandoms that ruined my life. I post Supernatural, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Merlin, Marvel (movies and comics), star trek (old and new), WTNV, Hannibal, and other things every once and a while. My OTP's are clintasha and destiel.
that’s because with boys a chemical is released in their brain when they make the decision and boys are more likely to hang or shoot themselves, so it always gets done first try. Meanwhile, girls tend to cut and mostly take pills, a method easier to mess up and easier to be saved, thus more attempts and less effect.
after the events of thor 1, thor sleeps in frigga’s bed for a week because every time he closes his eyes he sees loki spiraling into the abyss and when frigga kisses his brow and runs her fingers through his hair he’s able to find brief peace
after the avengers, thor slumps into frigga’s room and collapses on her bed and she rubs his face and hums his favorite childhood lullabies until he slips into a dreamless sleep
after thor 2, thor dresses in his finest robes and goes into frigga’s garden and lays next to her favorite flowers and pretends the breeze blowing through his hair are frigga’s fingers reassuring him that everything will be okay
actually it’s true. in sociology we learn about the fact that men participate in more risky behavior to prove masculinity and this is a way the patriarchy hurts men and pat of the reason the life expectancy is longer for women
thor waking up in a cold sweat after yet another nightmare of loki slipping through his fingers, of helplessly watching him plummet, of holding him in his arms as the life leaves him, and so he clutches one of his pillows to his chest and wraps himself around it and shakes and cries in the darkness of his own room so no one can see him break because he has to be strong for everyone
I was Re-watching Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone and I realized that the Dursleys not only failed Harry (which they did majorly), they failed Dudley as well.
By spoiling him and enabling him to bully and belittle others from such a young age they are partly what made him the way he was.
Like how they showed him to be greedy by showering him with presents on his birthday and not objecting or telling him he should be grateful when he complained and asked for more.
Or by turning the other way (and even encouraging him) when he bullied other children, especially Harry.
It was their responsibility to teach him right from wrong and they failed.
I am not saying Dudley is completely innocent or that he is stuck being a greedy bully but they certainly didn’t do him any favours.
“Dumbledore paused, and although his voice remained light and calm, and he gave no obvious sign of anger, Harry felt a kind of chill emanating from him and noticed that the Dursleys drew very slightly closer together. 'You did not do as I asked. You have never treated Harry as a son. He has known nothing but neglect and often cruelty at your hands. The best that can be said is that he has at least escaped the appalling damage you have inflicted upon the unfortunate boy sitting between you.'” ― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince